I have found myself focusing too much on the negative. Thinking things and saying things that are hurtful, or pessimistic. I admire people who aren't afraid to speak their minds, but I have been guilty of confusing strength with rudeness. I need more positive focus. I'm not exactly sure what that means, yet, but like everyone, I am work in progress. Kindness can be confused for weakness, and an optimistic outlook is sometimes challenged as not being a realist. But I say bring on the rainbows and sunshine and unicorns. A sharp tongue only ever leads to regret, and that isn't how I want to feel at the end of the day. I want a positive outlook, and to surround myself with this.
